Red flags are early signals visible long before a relationship turns serious. The trouble is that at the start each one is easy to explain away as infatuation, a busy week, or a rough past.
This test gathers 24 observations into eight signs and shows where the signals pile up. It does not judge the person — it weighs what has already happened.
This stays between you and your device. No sign-up, nothing uploaded — the result is calculated locally.
Answer about the person you are seeing now and about what has already happened, not about what you fear might.
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Early on we have little data and a lot of hope that it works out. Every single episode is explainable: late — traffic, snapped — hard day, no introductions to friends — too soon.
A flag is not an episode, it is a repetition. The same storyline stops being a coincidence on the third occurrence and becomes a description of the person by the fifth.
A mismatch is when the two of you do not fit: different pace, different plans, different ideas of a weekend. Nobody is at fault and you can part calmly.
A red flag is about how the person handles other people: shifting responsibility, pushing through boundaries, lying about small things. That does not resolve itself and usually travels into the next relationship.
One or two low signs is a subject for a direct conversation. Name the specific situation rather than the character: "you cancelled last minute twice" beats "you are irresponsible".
If more than half the signs score low, slow down and stop raising the stakes — no moving in, no lending money, no shared commitments until the picture clears up.
This test does not diagnose a person and does not replace your own observation. If the situation already looks like control and pressure, the abusive relationship test is a closer fit.